The Rise Of The Inauthentic Male

The rise of the inauthentic male is now a huge problem in society. What has happened to men and why have we become a shadow of our true selves?

To answer this question is very complex, firstly we have to ask ourselves what it should mean to be a male. I would look no further than studying the true essence of the sacred masculine energy which when activated in a man is about purpose, mission, action taking, drive, and most of all the role of the protector of the innocent and vulnerable. An energy which, in its true expression,  is a cradle for the divine feminine energy to express her natural care, nurturing, and loving qualities into the World. Unfortunately, this rise of the inauthentic male is failing to do that.

As I talk about in the video below these innate feminine qualities are absolutely essential in order to birth a new paradigm into existence. Because that is what the feminine does, she creates, she rebirths, and unless the masculine is in their essence it becomes a lot more difficult for that to happen. The social conditioners of society know these two energies very well, which is why so much is done to bastardise and skew both of them, because essentially if you can keep both sexes away from their natural essence and energy then it disrupts society making it easier to control and dominate, particularly if you knock the sacred masculine out.

The rise of the inauthentic male is now all about fake confidence, bravado, and macho which has nothing to do with protecting the innocence being slaughtered around them. Its all about how many bench press-ups you can do down the gym, how many hookups you can get on Tinder, and how many pints you can down with your mates down the pub. Its about viewing the feminine as an object to be used and abused, which of course is drummed into us from all angles through advertising, pornography, and a general sexual undertone to everything these days.

In the video I explain how men are being funneled towards a phony ‘fake it till you make it’ type of confidence because they are unwilling to do any kind of emotional work, and  to heal the reasons as to why they lack confidence in the first place! Pick up artists on Youtube teaching men how to be fake, macho, and like I say inauthentic. Don’t get me wrong the feminine energy is being totally corrupted too bythis  new wave of feminism and many other types of conditioning but that is for another blog.

We see the dynamics playing out in all aspects of society. Many women do not feel safe with this version of masculinity around, and men are fed up because many women are not in their natural essence either. So this ‘Tinder society’ breeds a kind of fake connection, where people are not looking to really bond on any deep level, probably down to fear mostly, and the fact that we also don’t really understand each other anymore.

We are both confused because we have forgotten and lost our core and our divine nature. Does anyone really think that sending lewd messages over Facebook and dick pictures is an expression of how men should be acting? Is this really masculinity expressing its true power in the World? Men that do this are really an embarrassment to the rest of us. Are we just here to cheer on our favorite sports team, and cry when they lose? Are there not a million more things going on in the World that we SHOULD be getting upset about?

Why are men not getting upset about child trafficking going on under their noses? Torture, rape, and murder of innocent babies and children? Why are men not getting upset about their government’s illegal invasion of foreign lands to steal oil and resources whilst murdering more people that did them no harm? And why are these so-called ‘heroes’ in the military ( who we are told are REAL men) fighting wars for paedophile politicians to do such things?

When are we as men going to become the leaders that we should all become? Not following others but becoming our own leaders, with courage, bravery, and care for the World our children will grow up in? It’s surely time for the men of this World to snap out of their amnesia and step up to the plate and become the TRUE expression of masculinity that will hold space for the feminine to nurture and rebirth a World of peace, love, and abundance.

My vlog below explains more in detail so check it out and feel free to subscribe to my YouTube channel for more information, viewpoints, and rants! If you found this article helpful please share with others to raise awareness, and consider subscribing to my weekly newsletter below to keep in touch with my work and announcements.

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Tony Sayers

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